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Thursday, July 20, 2006


Message in the Bottle... to my Daughter

This is the message I am unable to give you in person, but the same would be an answer to many of your Questions.

Why did I leave you, why didnt I keep in touch with you: I was forced to keep away from you since I didn't want you to be brain-washed about me, and in the process develop wrong ideas about the world and relationships. By explaining everything in detail here, I dont want to risk the above, myself, so I will try and tell things to you in person whenever there is a chance.

Did u have an improper phase of growing-up: You just had an unusual childhood, with no father around but thats not improper- there are a lot of children growing up without fathers, and many of them have went on to have a full life. Life does not always present itself to one, as it did to another- we all have to make do with what we have, like I did, and be positive about life. When something is not there, there is always some other thing which is going for you, realise that and carry on.

Will I be happy to have you back in my life: Oh yes, by all means, I am waiting for such a time when you realise that your father is not a bad man who left his wife and kid for his selfish motives. We will find ways to be together and to catch up with lost time together. I am waiting for you to be ready to meet... do not have any doubts about that. I am waiting with a smile.

Till we meet...... my wishes are with you.

yours lovingly

Father.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

One of the most touching messages ever written.

Anonymous said...

Dear Friend,

I am just behind you to reach at the stage of life you are.

Gokul Padoor said...

Hope none has to write such messages.... ever

Gokul Padoor said...

Another in the same boat: http://thestoryofparth.blogspot.in/p/letters-to-parth.html . Hope this boat reaches shore soon, closure is what we need, this wait is too painful.... everything happens for a good reason, so let it be....

Gokul Padoor said...

Another bottle in the Ocean of life: http://manavkalia.wordpress.com/2014/03/12/dilemma-of-a-parent/