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Saturday, July 29, 2006

Zee news "CRIMEFILE" on misuse of 498a&Dowry law:Sunday night11PM, Repeats Monday 10.30AM&4.30PM

To the Media Personnel and other responsible Citizens
 
Messers,
 
This is to inform the telecast of a TV program on Misuse of 498a and Dowry laws, this will be telecasted on 30th July Sunday night 11 P.M, in "Crime File" program on Zee News . This repeats on Monday morning 10.30AM and evening 4.30PM. Zee News Schedule is here: http://www.zeenews.com/shedule.asp?sid=SHE  .
 
 
 Address: CRIME FILE, Zee News, Essel Studio, FC-19, Sector 16-A, Noida - 201301, India
Phone: 91-0120- 2515399, 2511064 to 76
Send e-mail for Advertising :
pradeepsingh@zeenetwork.com .
 
Spread the news and awareness. Also see program "Jurm" in Aajtak today(29th July, Saturday) 11.30PM for the coverage of a similar case of Law misuse.
 
Do contact us if you or your office also is interested in reporting or knowing more about Misuse of IPC 498a and Dowry laws by Indian wives, putting hapless and innocent husbands and their families in distress and chronic misery. You can read more about IPC 498a misuse and our petitions and awareness efforts at http://www.498a.org/publicity.htm . News in media about cruelty by women/false cases: http://www.498a.org/news.htm .
 
To read about the widespread misuse of laws like IPC 498a and Dowry Act, and why even the Supreme court has acknowledged misuse of 498a… read.. http://at498a.blogspot.com/2006/07/please-report-on-misuse-of-ipc-section.html
 
 
Warm Regards
 
P.R.Gokul
http://gokul.go.to , http://cruiserdeep.blogspot.com/
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Friday, July 28, 2006

Blog using your Emails: Send a copy of your 498a awareness emails to cruiserdeep.498a@blogger.com

Hi All,

Even if you do not have a blog, or can't get on the web to post it. Just email a copy your awareness emails to cruiserdeep.498a@blogger.com (put this email id in the Cc of your emails sent to people/media) and it will be posted to the blog http://at498a.blogspot.com/ . This blog is built for sharing and accumulating all our Promotion Campaigns(including emails, Media contacts, Posters, any other publicity/awareness material). So that this could be a Single point for all references to our Promotion.

Some samples have already been posted here as below:

http://at498a.blogspot.com/2006/07/contributed-by-sudipto-de-sarkar.html : Written to the Zee news Channel explaining about the ignominy and misery 498a victims and society in general go through

http://at498a.blogspot.com/2006/07/contributed-by-lucio-mascarenhas.html: Written to the Zee News in the above lines, emails like these will prompt the media to make more and more programs on Misuse of 498a.

So I urge all SIF members to send emails to the Media. You can find some Media contacts in the Blog itself(http://at498a.blogspot.com/2006/07/media-people-of-india-httpwww.html etc., apart from the file section of SIF yahoo group).

Start sending emails to Media, and copy your emails to cruiserdeep.498a@blogger.com so that it automatically gets posted on the blog(http://at498a.blogspot.com/), and others can take inspiration, data and ideas from your posts. Send in your emails SOOOON.

Do email me at drmura@hotmail.com if you want to be a member of this blog, so that you can post/edit from Web too.
Zee news "CRIMEFILE" on misuse of law:Sunday night11PM 30th July 2006, Repeats Monday 10.30AM&4.30PM

Hi All,

Just confirmed with Delhi Zee news office that the program on Misuse of 498a and Dowry laws will be telecasted on Sunday night 11 P.M, in "Crime File" program on Zee News. This repeats on Monday morning 10.30AM and evening 4.30PM. Zee News Schedule is here: http://www.zeenews.com/shedule.asp?sid=SHE .

Earlier the bombay reporter had told(and even now!) that it will be telecasted on Saturday and repeats on Sunday(so just to be sure watch out the same timings on Saturday too, though Delhi office is sure that its on Sunday & repeated on Monday)Do send your feedback to crimereporter@zeenetwork.com , inews@zeenetwork.com , anilsharma@zeenetwork.com , santosht@zeenetwork.com , crimefile@zeenews.com . That is crimereporter (at) zeenetwork.com , inews (at) zeenetwork.com , anilsharma (at)zeenetwork.com , santosht (at) zeenetwork.com & crimefile (at) zeenews.com .......... . (replace (at) with @). If they get good viewership and feedback, they will follow-up with more programs, so send in your feedback emails and forward this message and inform all interested people you know.

Those who want to be anonymously interviewed(to which Zee didn't agree this time), or telephonically interviewed or by webcam/net, can also give their ideas and request through the emails above, or write to address below:

Address: CRIME FILE, Zee News, Essel Studio, FC-19, Sector 16-A, Noida - 201301, IndiaPhone: 91-0120- 2515399, 2511064 to 76Send e-mail for Advertising : pradeepsingh@zeenetwork.com .

Spread the news and awareness

Thursday, July 27, 2006

"Men don't cry", "Men don't ask for help when in trouble(they seldom ask for Directions for example)" these are some Stereotypes which come to mind when you think about traits of men. Some of the lesser discussed traits, but which are conditioned almost indelibly into a mans psyche 1) A man hides and tolerates abuse from wife, since if known to public, he will be seen as a sissy, a cad, a spine-less being 2) He does not discuss his domestic problems with others, he won't even be really interested in helping fellow men in domestic abuse situations, even if he is able to(since that would earn him a label of anti-woman, and he will be ostracised by feminists and possibly denied the company of beautiful Power-Babes!, and most certainly ridiculed by foul-mouthed internet stalkers).

See how Chivalry is conditioned and taught to both Men and Women right from their childhood, and how some men feel obliged to stay in abusive relationships with abusive wives/partners Article: Stephen Hawking and the burden of western chivalry . Related article: Article WORKING WITH VIOLENT WOMEN BY ERIN PIZZEY

Thursday, July 20, 2006


Message in the Bottle... to my Daughter

This is the message I am unable to give you in person, but the same would be an answer to many of your Questions.

Why did I leave you, why didnt I keep in touch with you: I was forced to keep away from you since I didn't want you to be brain-washed about me, and in the process develop wrong ideas about the world and relationships. By explaining everything in detail here, I dont want to risk the above, myself, so I will try and tell things to you in person whenever there is a chance.

Did u have an improper phase of growing-up: You just had an unusual childhood, with no father around but thats not improper- there are a lot of children growing up without fathers, and many of them have went on to have a full life. Life does not always present itself to one, as it did to another- we all have to make do with what we have, like I did, and be positive about life. When something is not there, there is always some other thing which is going for you, realise that and carry on.

Will I be happy to have you back in my life: Oh yes, by all means, I am waiting for such a time when you realise that your father is not a bad man who left his wife and kid for his selfish motives. We will find ways to be together and to catch up with lost time together. I am waiting for you to be ready to meet... do not have any doubts about that. I am waiting with a smile.

Till we meet...... my wishes are with you.

yours lovingly

Father.

Tuesday, June 20, 2006

I had written to the President at presidentofindia@rb.nic.in , urge you to also write regarding the injustice you are facing due to Misuse of IPC 498a.

regards
Gokul
----- Original Message -----
From: Gokul
To: president
Sent: Monday, June 19, 2006 11:34 AM
Subject: Misuse of IPC 498a putting Indian families in extended Turmoil


Dear Mr.President,

I hope you have some time to go through what I am submitting I am sure you have heard about the IPC section 498a, which is a section to safegaurd women against cruelty from husband and relatives.

But this gets misused mainly by women who are vengeful and wants either a ransom for letting the husband out of the false case, or to make him submit to her demands and lead life gaining power over the husband and family.

Sir, myself and many others who are just in their youth and have many dreams in life are tied up in this legal mess because of this section, which does not need any evidence other than the girls word to get the accused arrested and entangle them in the case for years and years in our slow judicial redressal system. Along with the husbands, their families are also caught in this quicksand of misused law. And in effect the law which is aimed to protect women is trapping atleast 2 women of a household on the hands of an unscrupulous, vengeful and law misusing legal terrorist. For more details about this you could refer to my complain letter to Commissioner of Police, Mumbai at: http://cruiserdeep.blogspot.com/2006/01/i-had-posted-below-petition-at-sites.html and http://www.498a.org/contents/publicity/498aReport.pdf .

Your attention to this issue and instructions to our law makers would definitely speed the ongoing amendment/repeal of this section of IPC. Do let me know of anything else which I can do to assist you in wiping this menace off, which is tying up a lot of positive energy and resources of our country.

One online community, with over 900 members all over the globe, fighting against this has some websites created and managed by volunteers:
http://mynation.net

http://www.498a.org

http://www.saveindianfamily.org/

You can read accounts of 100s of members, details of the misuse we get as SOS help requests at: http://victims-of-law.blogspot.com . Request you to guide us to bring some sanity to the oft-misused IPC section of 498a. As you can imagine 100s of man years have already been lost on account of this misuse, and is easily a national threat if left unchecked.

Warm Regards

P.R.Gokul
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Friday, March 24, 2006

This is one movement which had caught my attention, I hope they fulfill what they set out to do... This came as an email to me, and I felt that they should be given some mindshare, after all this seems to be a time of public awareness and arising......

regards
Gokul

IITians completing master degrees, that all the present politicians cannot even think to make together, decided to rinse the filthy and foul elementsof the system to make our India a Jagadguru (ruler of the world). Theirbrilliance, patriotism and sacrifice are unusual and very remarkable. They callthemselves PARITRANA (pretty uncommon name), means complete relief implying theend of the very cause of distress, that’s what they think will do for everycitizen of India.

All those IITians been suspected in any possible way people can think, ratherthan applauding their super intelligent brain, that they are renowned in wholeworld for. They sacrificed their multimillion dollar jobs and comfortable lifeonly to make the system of our India super strong. They personally hatecorruption, illiteracy, opaqueness, partiality based on religion and so all thefouls that we all detest that our country needs. They dream a revolution ofpatriot youth government, which will change the whole system of India to gettransparent, corruption free and super advanced India, and so we all dream. PARITRANAthe Political party for the Bharat of the 21st century.

This mail is a part of the online campaigning started by prospective members ofPARITRANA contacted by the PARITRANA leaders, towards gaining support forPARITRANA in each and every city .To know more about this party go throughtthe following links and blogs.Please dont treat this mail as just anotherforward.This is an endeavour towards gathering momentum for PARITRANA by havingthis mail read by every IT professionals ,college goer and college passedout,students pursuing their diploma,etc.Currently what is needed is that weestablish a popularity base as broad as possible among the elite learnedcommunity and then concentratrate on the grassroots section of the society. Thefollowing are the links

Since , one of the leader of “PARITRANA” Mr. Santhanagopalan Vasudev is goingto contest in one of the Chennai Constituency , Myself and other patrioticfriends from Chennai are joining our hands with him to face the election ..Ikindly request you people to join yahoo groups called “paritranaites” which wascreated by us with help of party leaders .. So, please join with us to make a great India ...The link for yahoo groups ishere ,join in this group and shoot up your views , ideas and suggestions...
Please join this group with your yahoo id ..
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/paritranaites/

OTHER LINKS
http://www.arthshastra.com/archive/paritrana-getting-to-know-a-little-bit-more/ (The interview with Chandrasekhar,National Treasurer of Paritrana ) http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/articleshow/1384682.cms ( THE TIMES OF INDIA article on Paritrana)http://www.indianexpress.com/full_story.php?content_id=86859 ( Indian Express article on Paritrana) http://www.paritrana.org/ ( The official website for PARITRANA politicalparty)
http://www.paritrana.org/joinus.htm (For joiningPARITRANA visit this link.) http://paritranaiites.blogspot.com/2006/02/to-all-prospective-paritranaiites.html

By getting this mail you hold the responsibility towards forwarding the mail to all your known friends collegemates,juniors somehow or the othereither by sending a mail to the college groups or individually.Remember thatthis is just one of the many ways of helping PARITRANA. Let carry out these actions with intense fervourand aggression fueled by the retribution we thought of having on this corruptpolitical system.For charging up let us recall just a few instances when welost our temper---murder of the IIT graduate Satyendra Dubey , IIM graduateManjunath who were all victims of this corrupt political system for the onlyreason that they carry out their duties in a sincere manner ,the acceptanceof bribe by the lard laden politicans for raising questions in the parliamentstowards taking a break from the usual routine of warming up the seats in theparliament etc.... The choice is yours as to whether you want to helpthose PARITRANA leaders assume the sceptre at the earliest or you want towitness the damn politicians playing the zero sum game forever.